Thursday, July 25, 2013

Take my breath take my breath ... away!

                         Closing lines of a popular number to begin this post....wondering? Well, I will share the logic a bit later but through this post, I just want to confess that having seen the profile of the faculty members who have been trying to drill some sense into our hard nuts since commencement of IVth Trimester, I cannot help but smile and bumble these lines to the EBS. Yes, one feels blessed to be in company of such experienced, learned and graceful company.

                  Coming to the logic part..... the concluding lines of the number have been used here so as to actually mark the end of this blog. It has been a fantastic journey of more than 50 posts and 3000 plus visits and it has been so one only  because of your support and affection. You ask me the reason for such a sudden closure and I have none; it is just that, as per my opinion, this is how it needs to wind up. All of us have come a long way since my first interaction with EBS well over a year ago. And the travel, with all its humps and lows, has been progressive and one signifying growth and maturity. 

                             I thank each one of you, my dear friends! May the journey continue sans this blog and may you all do so well that one day EBS is forced to turn around and whisper these lines to you ..."You take my breath take my breath ... away!"
   
                                  Adieu!

Friday, July 19, 2013

The Monsoon Wedding



                          In my thinking (its sanity being debatable), nothing can please an institution more than the fact that certain permanent relationships get created in its courtyards. So, here we are; just back from celebrations! Naudie and Deepika tied nuptial knot the day before. We wish the couple a very long and happy married life.....

        The Band-Baaza-Baraat took two days of festivities wherein many EBSians did show up to shake a leg or two. It was fun and a huge joy to see the newlyweds beaming with happiness. 

                However, the event also did prompt many students to say a thing or two about a very strange gesture made by someone when the news was broken in a gathering for the first time. As our BC faculty says, communication is 90% non-verbal........no wonder then that many people read a bit too much (entirely avoidable though) in that unfortunate gesture. But as the good times are on the roll, let us move and not really care..... opinions will always be there. 

              Let me wind up  by wishing the couple all the very best and that too on behalf of all you guys (the well-wishers only!)
                 
                  

Saturday, July 6, 2013

Think Global; Act Local..... Avoiding ताण्डव!

                    Among many other events of different hues and shades that we have had privilege or misfortune (depends whether it was winning cricket world cup twice or unification of two Germanies or Sqn Leader Sharma in space OR Tsumani in SE Asia or WTC attacks or scams and scandals....and the list goes on and on and on!), our generation is in the process of witnessing a catastrophe in Uttarakhand. I say,'in the process' because no one really knows when the tragedy will get over finally. I am afraid it will be long after people of my vintage are gone because such scars (more because of inhumane acts than floods per se) take a lifetime to heal.....ask those who have survived the ordeal!
       
         Debates on TV and articles in print media notwithstanding, things have certainly gone wrong somewhere. Some blame it on the mad race to build dams and roads (globally accepted definition of development even though we ignore global safety standards quite conveniently), others see religious reasons like shifting of a statue. I am no authority and want to pass no judgement. Having been to such areas as a traveller, I would (though) confess that one usually got that sick feeling when one drove on certain roads in lower Himalayas. In any case, we need to look ahead and think of  ways to avoid such tragedies. And as a layman, I would go with what Tom Alter had to say a few days ago. He believes, and I support while I quote,"..let us, at least for next five years, do our char-dham yatra as it was being done for centuries before we decided to build roads there!" (I unquote, with errors and modifications) And why not! 

             A pilgrimage is a time to move away from material world, both emotionally and physically. Why attempts must be made to say hello to Gods directly after alighting from your SUVs and not otherwise. Having grown in the lap of the Vaishno Devi and having been there numerous times, I do feel the change. We would soon be, if all goes on as planned,  saying hello to Mother Deity directly after alighting from our vehicles whether electrical or flying! Pilgrimages, if believers are to be believed, are meant for fortunate ones who would be called by sitting deities to present themselves when the moment comes. Today, it is a matter of a few clicks on a website and some currency in the bank and you are ready to 'shout' right in the years of the deity. And yes, you do not mind littering, you do not mind indulging (see my post on Rishikesh..31 March(second part)), you ignore others' comforts and you do throw all courtesies to wind, you click pics where you are not supposed to, you ogle at fair sex and YET you are on a so called 'pilgrimage'.

          I may not be an orthodox believer; I may not see gods in statues and temples but I do feel HIM in my own way. But when, after having seen and having felt upset over all such happenings, I am told that it was cosmic dance of Shiva (ताण्डव ,ie), I tend to believe the rumours. In fact, sounding harsh as I may be, it was long over -due. 

          We must, no doubts, think global while planning developments, duly incorporating global standards of safety and disaster management. But not every area on this globe is amenable to constructions and blastings and we must have the good sense to accept such realities with grace because if we have the intelligence to overcome such hurdles, we must also possess the ability to assess the stakes that get thrown in and the likely costs that might have to be paid on a bad day. I do not intend indulging into facts and debates as to electricity produced at place A gets utilised where finally nor do I pretend to be Mr Know All. All that I would request my countrymen, the wise men ie, that while going in for world class projects, lets realistically assess local conditions and ground realities and then see if prevailing global safety standards can fit the  mosaic. And if any compromise is made with the safety and that too in a good faith, let us first create a balance sheet and see the likely costs that will have to be paid if the idea backfires. Ask me, I would rather remain cut off, would rather read in a kerosene -lit diya rather than usher in a culture where corpses are mutilated and survivors extorted in a land that is believed to be inhabited by our deities and gods. In any case, I will do everything to make sure that I am not made to witness the ताण्डव  that our generation has had the misfortune of watching helplessly as videos from the cursed hills descended on our computer and TV screens. I do not ever want to hear stories about what goons did to helpless victims in a land where Lord Shiva's गन  are believed to be roaming!


Thursday, July 4, 2013

The Summer Inferno

                       The Summer Inferno (or did they call it Summer Internship?) is coming to an end and what an experience it has been! The place of the event, ie Bangalore (or Bangaluru as some die-hards would like to refer to it as) is not the one you would normally associate with high ambient temperatures, let alone being an inferno. So, it had something to do with the activities and experience. And if it were a sign of the things to come in the lives of most of us, life is gonna be one hell of a struggle for next few years.
                       
                        Looking at the positive side, there have been some great learning points too. One big lesson is that there are no free lunches in a party called life. Also, it would be our ability to apply rather than mug up theories that would see us through rough times and not-so-friendly climes. I am sure everyone of us have picked of lessons like this and this experience will not go waste. 

                              If I were to cast in my vote whether to have such an activity (internship, ie) or not, I will not think even once before voting for a "yes"*. And the * denotes the famous fine-print that invariably reads,"conditions apply". And my condition in this is that at least informally, lets refer to it as Summer INFERNO!

Friday, May 10, 2013

Decide Today

                   Hi guys, as we embark on our new leg of management training, ie Summer Internship, there is a small, little issue I would recommend for all of us to consider. Many of us are anxious about the upcoming internship that is being perceived as a long slog. Many others who have had some exposure to the industry in the past, do realise the difficulties young trainees face under such circumstances. There are others who want to play the ball as per its merit, leaving out worrying part as of now.

                  Well, all you guys are right in your own rights. I, however, have a small recommendation to make. It is today and not once the internship begins or ends that we need to decide how our experiences are gonna be. It is an event, rather a series of events lined up over next 8-10 weeks but the beauty of our minds is such that our decision today will decide how it is gonna be out there in the field. If we decide that it will be good, believe me, it will be good as well as educative. If we are pessimistic today, no amount of positive experiences can change the outcome that gets decided in the process today.

                    Someone has rightly said that it is important to re-arrange the furniture (beautiful, if fixtures too!) just before such an experience and everything will fall in place. Training, if done properly, enables us to be up to the mark as and when challenges are thrown at us in future. So, lets tell ourselves, in our own secret ways, that we are gonna enjoy a lot and come out of the module pretty learned, educated and more confident. The results will the, I am confident, follow the trend.

                        Wishing you all a very Happy Summer Internship!

Thursday, May 9, 2013

Bliss ON!

             There are times when you just feel a kind of bliss in your surroundings, in your existence..... a sense of general happiness as they put across colloquially. Invariably, the associated feeling of being a bit clueless about the actual reason for such an aura surrounding you, adds on to the mystique of the whole phenomenon. And I say , 'a bit clueless' because depending on age and phase of one's life, one can always find a reason or two to explain the state of mind. So, to a youngster, it could be falling in love (even though love is independent of age, I am trying to be as close to the mean as possible!), for an oldie, it could be watching grandchildren grow and for the lot in-between, reasons could be in-between too.  So, as I key in these words, I am focussing on the general ambience and aura that set us off to our much awaited summer internships earlier today.
                   With 3rd Trimester winding up today, we are a freer lot, at least for a little while. With the pressure of exams over and with a little break ranging from a few days to a week and a half for most of us, happiness was bound to be felt but then we have been through similar situations on at least two occasions over past one year. This was, however, definitely different. The overall handling of the trimester and the fact that signing off was a bit different this time, leads me to conclude that it had something to do with the aura at Era these days. Whether it was generally handling of the trimester or breaks or exams or the informal chit-chat session to wind up the day or a keenly contested competition of a different kind OR a mix of all this....whatever it was, the end result was good. Just have a look-see at some of the closing moments..... bliss can be felt, I am sure!

                         (The Spitfires of EBS)

                Brings me to an issue that was discussed during the chat today. The key question was about the ease or difficulty that people generally face while opening up to others and whether it is humanly possible to share everything with someone or the other? And we had mixed responses: someone claimed to be like an 'open book' (open or closed, book needs to be read and who has the time?); someone else thought he was 'totally transparent' (and yet he could be seen...........not really like 'Memoirs of an Invisible Man'). Well, that was on a lighter side. My personal view is that even if we grant ourselves our obligations (related to our respective professions) to keep certain things to ourselves, it is still very difficult to be 100% open in all other aspects. Like someone said even though we are not counting the attitude or reliability of other people around us, the trend remains the same. I look at life and such issues as a circle..... a circle that begins with our birth and ends with our departure. And unless we have reasons to kick the buckets too soon, most of us will land up as oldies. They say that a person becomes a child again as she grows old. So, it is either the child or the oldie (practically a child again) who can afford to be 100% honest in her confessions. We do not have to conduct research to make ourselves believe that children are actually very honest. Just a look within our family or friend circles and we will feel the truth. As far as oldies are concerned, lets have a look at some of the most honestly written autobiographies/ accounts, our own dear Mr Khushwant Singh for example, and we can conclude that even though exceptions are always there and yet the oldies do tend to be honest. To everyone else, except children of two categories, life does not allow such a privilege.
                    Dilli is getting too warm.... time to run; run to a place known for its greenery and tropical weather even though traffic nowadays is a bit of pain there! 
                         SO LONG....! 

Thursday, May 2, 2013

Counting the Blessings!

                     There are few things in life we tend to take for granted and, thus, generally find ourselves in some kind of a soup (recipes not being relevant here)! Be it our relationships or health or security...... and the list goes on. Then there are few more things that we possess but do not either know about such things or simply ignore them. One such thing is using our 'Common Sense', a virtue that is NOT commonly used. And yet there are few more things that have great implications but we, the lesser mortals, as a general rule, simply do not count such things since they are too small or too insignificant in our schemes of things. Small little blessings that we get when our kids hug us or when an unknown driver, whom you have allowed some space before yourself on a defunct traffic light, smiles back at you before speeding off or when you say,' Thanx' to an unsuspecting tea-stall vendor at a footpath and he looks back at you, wondering as well as amused at such an unusual occurrence. In general, we ignore the values of such gestures irrespective of their sources and reasons. I think that is why we encounter more frustration/irritation (and resultant constipation....ha, ha) than pure happiness on regular basis. 
                   Being an early riser, I am out of my niche at 0430h or so everyday. Today (as also the day before), I felt a bit of nip in the early morning breeze. Well guys, we are already in May! As a matter of routine, it must have been a situation warranting calls like 'May Day, May Day!'. But look at the little mercy from the Heavens..... on 02nd May, there is a bit of chill in the air. For a generation that thrives on modern day gadgets like ACs and Refrigerators, it may make no difference (especially so when most of us are lazy enough not to make an effort to feel such blessings) but think about those who neither have such luxuries nor have any other option but to slog for a living and we can see the difference. And of course, there are many more creatures who have no option but to rough it out during harsh weather conditions. It is not that summers will not come eventually (days are already pretty warm) but for such a small luxury, there is a case for each one of us to look up and give HIM a smile! And yes, time too to count our blessings.
                 Today is a break before a heavy weight exam tomorrow. Not a big deal, one may feel! But it has taken pressure off us. Most of us, as I know it now, were generally relaxing yesterday and we are in a better state of mind to take on some nasty equations and equally dirty formulae. Even though we might not have felt it, stress has suddenly reduced and we have probably added a day or two to our earthly lives. Another reason to thank someone and count our blessings!

                  Most of north India shook yesterday, third time in recent times; reminded me of devastations that I happened to closely witness in Kashmir (October of 2005) and Marathwada(September of 1993). I am sure all of us do realise as to what and how much can go wrong when Earth takes a deep breath or two. Fortunately, we have been spared any harm. I am sure you all will agree with me when I propose to look up and give that GUY a big smile!

                   May He give us many more such blessings and grant us the good sense of appreciating and counting such blessings!